Three Types of People to consider before developing friendship!
There are three types of people around us:
Utthama
Madhyama
Adhama
Who are Utthama? Who are madhyama? Who are Adhama?
UTTHAMA (BEST):
Utthama persons do only good both for those who do good and bad for them.
These Utthama persons can lead a very peaceful life without mental stress.
They just forgive and forget and go for next duties.
They have strong faith in the mercy of the Lord and Karma. So, they never retaliate in life.
MADHYAMA (MEDIUM):
Madhyama persons do good only for those who do good for them.
These people are very clever and Selfish.
They do good for favourable persons only and they do not care others at all.
They will speak sweetly to those who can help them. If someone is not in a position to help them, they won’t waste their time for them.
They praise only the favourable persons from sky to earth. If he stops doing favours, they usually unfriend them with no gratitude.
We should be very careful with these people without taking close association.
ADHAMA (NOT GOOD):
These people are very dangerous. They do Only bad even for those who do good for them.
One should totally avoid their association.
Even courtesy talks need not be maintained. Just smile at them and move away.
If you develop some associations with them, they will drag you into issues and will affect your peace of mind and life.
Misusing our kindness, they may voluntarily seek some favour from us and if we don’t do them, they will start to act against us.
Just move away seeing such adhama persons.
They are very inauspicious persons.
CONCLUSION:
Having good association with UTTHAMA persons will be favourable for our upliftment in overall life including devotional life.
Avoiding ADHAMA persons will keep our life healthy.
Have careful approach with MADHYAMA Persons.
Having right friendship is very important for our growth in life. Hereafter analyse them based on the above tips and classifications.
Best of luck.