How women can earn in spite of the discouraging parents?
A woman follower (Name hidden) asked like this:
“Anna I really want your guidance as I am totally feeling hopeless at this time. Anna I am still struggling to stand on my foot, I am not yet settled coz of which I have to tolerate insults everyday of my family. When my parents needed me I left my everything to earn bread and help them in all possible manner when my father, now they are financially stable so they have made me do a degree so that they can get me married but that degree is not helping me to earn at all. Whenever I request my parents to give me some money to do some course, they deny. They never give me anything and on the other hand, they are spending lakhs on my sister every semester. Whenever I ask they always say our hand is tight right now. I accept and understand that its okay. But, every time. I have deep interest in one course and everyone suggests to me that your knowledge is good, you must do. Whenever I try to ask to pls sponsor me, so I can do a professional course and stand myself. I don’t get a penny. I don’t even ask for pocket money. For 10 years my life is a mess and I am tired now. My parents are not helping me at all. My grandparents are also helping my other cousins but not me despite the fact that I am very intelligent. I just need a chance to prove myself.
My mother always say that this is your prarabdh. You must have destroyed life of someone in your previous life. I accept and I am paying for my bad deeds. But, don’t I even get a chance?
I shared with one senior devotee that I am very disturbed. She scolded me by saying that she is around 65 years old. Her kids always scold her that she knows nothing and she is happy whereas you are so engrossed in your family. But, she is 65 and I am just 30. I can’t live like 65 or like a sanyasi.
Idk where my life is heading nor I have focus in bhakti nor in job. I have lost all interest in living only. I try hard each day even to do a basic job. I was very confident before but my life has been taken away. I have no interest only. After all this my parents main aim is to just get me married but without financial security marrying also scares me. Whenever I share my mother always say be positive why are you so negative. Prabhuji pls guide me how can I accept all this as prarabdh and be strong that these things don’t affect me.”
REPLY:
Don’t worry. Women can earn in spite of the discouraging parents.
See, One should always see those who are leading more painful life than themselves.
There are persons who have no vision at all. They can’t even see this beautiful world.
There are persons who are mentally challenged. They can’t enjoy this life like others.
(Is a Girl leaving the controlling Parents who insists their views wrong? READ HERE!)
There are people who don’t even have a shelter to live. They live on the platforms.
There are parents without children and also Vice versa.
There are girls and boys who have physical challenges and are unable to move on their own.
There are patients with serious diseases like cancer, heart & kidney diseases, etc.
In your case, you have good body; Good mind; Good place to live.
The issue is just having the parents who don’t understand you properly.
See, we should never depend on others to come up in life.
We ourselves should take the initiatives and come up.
You are accusing your parents for not getting a good job.
Of course, they might have blocked in some way.
But where did your intelligence go?
Why can’t you apply your intelligence and plan for your future?
(How to deal if you feel that your parents neglect or do not love you? READ HERE!)
Why do you cry that you are unable to get a job?
Why can’t you create your own job?
This is the yuga of “work from home”, and “study from home”
During the Corona Virus Pandemic in the years 2019-22, the whole world worked from home and made money.
Women can earn from home. You have phone; You can get a second hand computer with the basic configuration for just Rs.7000.
You can do projects in different companies thru online mode even from home.
There are plenty of websites that give freelance projects that can be done at any time a day and on any day of a week.
You can earn thru these opportunities more than even conventional jobs.
So, understand this fact. You may not have cooperating parents. But, you are fine. Isn’t it?
Why can’t you trust yourself and earn by working from home?
In the Next Post, I will post the link of a company that gives work from home projects genuinely.
I myself have worked there when I was struggling for money.
Work in such companies that give freelance projects to work from home.
Earn sizably and shut the mouth of your parents and others who did not believe in your skills.
(How to correct both my parents who are violating in their married life? READ HERE!)
I tell you, there is no shortage of opportunities nowadays. Opportunities are there. We only fail to find and make use of them.
Everyone has been given a typical talent. He has to identify it and shine in life.
Instead of doing so, why do you develop self pity?
You have everything except money.
But, you can earn in five or even six digits even without investing even Rs.1000.
This is the greatness of Online Opportunities.
The readers too can write genuine online earning sources that they have experienced. I will post it in the next post. Don’t send based on their advertisements. Send only if you have been experiencing their safe and stable service in giving earning opportunities.
My kind advice is: Please don’t develop inferiority complex. If you start to explore the opportunities, you can find many opportunities. If you eagerly and effectively do them, you can earn more than the regular employees.
Don’t blame God, yourself and others. Women can earn in spite of the discouraging parents. Start to explore the opportunities. Achieve in life.
Who knows? You may earn more than even your father!
Women can earn in any situation in this Online world if they have strong determination!
(Tips to deal with the Generation Gap with the Parents and elders! READ HERE!)
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